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entered the world of Crazy 1.5 years ago . and oh what a ride it has been... .
I just started reading a book called "Say Goodbye to crazy! How to get rid of his Crazy Ex and get your sanity back. so far all that has been written is so true. like they interviewed me and my words are now on the pages of this book. things that sound so familiar and things I hope she doesn't do... .and things that she is doing now. in and out of court seems to be her ammo. she has tried to ruffle his feathers with everything under the sun. we have established bounders. she has tried this and the to get him to respond... well he does respond but never in front of her... so money money and more money she wants... she is establishing a means to not work by being disable and expecting him to pay alimony... she has her masters degree and has the potential to make 36,000.00 a year and wants him to pay the difference until she makes that money.
does any one have any ideas to protect he very little he has left.?
much thanks be kind to one another ...
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Hi Blue Jay,
I'd liek to welcome you to bpdfamily. I'm sorry to hear that, being in court with a pwBPD is incredibly difficult, the system is built so that it's you vs someone else, it creates conflict and it's more difficult when someone has a high conflict personality, not to mention that it's unwarranted attention.
What are his boundaries when it comes to money? Is he getting fleeced in court or is he giving into her demands?
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