I don't understand the purpose of this question. Are you trying to make yourself feel better by feeling superior?
Yes
Is it working?
I'd be more interested in how this relationship has affected your self-esteem. Mine made me feel like I was very special; by the end I felt like somehow I was terribly wrong for even wanting a relationship with him.
These relationship can really do a number on our self-esteem. How do we get back on track?
heartandwhole