Trying to let go

[Depression = 72% of members]

Good evening, I've been struggling for quite sometime to completely detach from sig other of 20 + years.  He is a recovering alcoholic but also has so many BPD traits. We are not together but he continues to stop by or text.  

[djae]

Good evening, I've been struggling for quite sometime to completely detach from sig other of 20 + years.  He is a recovering alcoholic but also has so many BPD traits. We are not together but he continues to stop by or text.  

[roberto516]

Welcome djae! You've come to the right place. I can't speak for myself. But everyone here is a real kind hearted soul. What is it that he texts about, or feels the need to visit about?

[djae]

He usually just texts "good morning" or when he stops by he just asks what I've been up to. I've blocked his cell number and he is now using a different cell phone.

[once removed]

hi djae, id like to join  roberto516 and say

im very sorry for the circumstances that have brought you here, and the loss of your twenty year relationship. i hope that you are being gentle with yourself and taking good care of yourself as you process. nonetheless, i am glad you found us, you are among folks that have walked or are walking in your shoes and understand.

it will help us better support you if you can share more of your story with us as you are comfortable. what led to the breakup? did you initiate it?

keep posting djae, we are here for you 24/7