What's the playlist for you? (Musical healing)

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

I am recovering from the 6th splitting and run out (came home from business trip and the STBXHwBPD had run out again).  Given the waif / hermit tendencies and our dog passing, it broke his ability to cope, especially since his trauma was preventing him from picking up DBT skills.  So... .onwards from the financial, emotional, and physical abuse.

What's your break-up playlist or mix?

Depending on if I'm inspired or trying to give myself a kick in the rear to get in gear, I'm switching.

About BPD:
- For You - Barenaked Ladies
- There You Go - Johnny Cash

Inspired:
- Forever Young - The Pretenders
- Feeling Good - Michael Buble
- Conqueror - Estelle
- Titanium - Sia
- Life is a Highway - Rascal Flatts
- Days Go By - Keith Urban
- Good to be Alive - Andy Grammer
- Let it Rain - Keri Noble
- Best Day of My Life - American Authors

Rear in Gear:
- Ain't Your Mama - Jennifer Lopez
- Don't Miss You - Ricki Lee
- Silver Lining - Rilo Kiley
- Stand - Rascal Flatts
- Don't Put Dirt on my Grave Just Yet - Nashville Cast
- Some Day - The Black Eyed Peas

Mad at the Situation I Got Myself Into:
- Man Like That - Gin Wigmore
- Uprising - Muse
- Hate on Me - Jill Scott
- Tell that Devil - Jill Andrews
- My Songs Know What You Did In the Dark - Fall Out Boy
- Stronger - Kelly Clarkson
- The Stranger - Billy Joel
- Lie to Me - Jonny Lang
- Monsters - Ruelle
- It Ends Tonight - All-American Rejects
- No More I Love You's - Annie Lennox
- Hate Me - Blue October
- Grenade - Bruno Mars
- Forget You - CeeLo Green

[HopinAndPrayin]

I am recovering from the 6th splitting and run out (came home from business trip and the STBXHwBPD had run out again).  Given the waif / hermit tendencies and our dog passing, it broke his ability to cope, especially since his trauma was preventing him from picking up DBT skills.  So... .onwards from the financial, emotional, and physical abuse.

What's your break-up playlist or mix?

Depending on if I'm inspired or trying to give myself a kick in the rear to get in gear, I'm switching.

About BPD:
- For You - Barenaked Ladies
- There You Go - Johnny Cash

Inspired:
- Forever Young - The Pretenders
- Feeling Good - Michael Buble
- Conqueror - Estelle
- Titanium - Sia
- Life is a Highway - Rascal Flatts
- Days Go By - Keith Urban
- Good to be Alive - Andy Grammer
- Let it Rain - Keri Noble
- Best Day of My Life - American Authors

Rear in Gear:
- Ain't Your Mama - Jennifer Lopez
- Don't Miss You - Ricki Lee
- Silver Lining - Rilo Kiley
- Stand - Rascal Flatts
- Don't Put Dirt on my Grave Just Yet - Nashville Cast
- Some Day - The Black Eyed Peas

Mad at the Situation I Got Myself Into:
- Man Like That - Gin Wigmore
- Uprising - Muse
- Hate on Me - Jill Scott
- Tell that Devil - Jill Andrews
- My Songs Know What You Did In the Dark - Fall Out Boy
- Stronger - Kelly Clarkson
- The Stranger - Billy Joel
- Lie to Me - Jonny Lang
- Monsters - Ruelle
- It Ends Tonight - All-American Rejects
- No More I Love You's - Annie Lennox
- Hate Me - Blue October
- Grenade - Bruno Mars
- Forget You - CeeLo Green

[Sparky0426]

Music is definitely therapy! Here are a few from my break-up playlist, enjoy 


Melancholy (Sometimes you gotta cry it out!):

Skylar Grey- Love The Way You Lie
Adele- Water Under The Bridge
Lauryn Hill- Ex-Factor
James Bay- Let It Go
Lucy Rose- Shiver
A Great Big World- Say Something
Rihanna- Love On The Brain
Ryn Weaver- OctaHate
Usher- Climax
Avant- Separated
Usher- Crash
Thievery Corporation- Beautiful Drug

Middle Finger Up (Sometimes you gotta get mad!):

Jessie James- I look So Good
Beyoncé- Sorry
Incubus- Mexico
Lit- Miserable
Rachel Platten- Fight Song
Kanye West- Runaway
Nicki Minaj- Pills and Potions
Kid Cudi- Pursuit of Happiness
Gotye- Somebody That I Used To Know

 *)Taylor Swift- We are Never Getting Back Together 

[AustenJ]

BPD songs:

Scared to Be Lonely- Martin Garrix
Cake - Flo Rida
I Don't Want to Live Forever- Zayn/Taylor Swift
Weak-AJR
All Time Low-Jon Bellion
The Other-Lauv
Mercy-Shawn Mendes
Say You Won't Let Go-James Arthur
Scars to My Beautiful- Alessia Cara
Just Hold On-Steve Aoki
I Miss You-Grey
Beautiful Problem-Mod Sun
Don't Wanna Know- Maroon 5
Love On the Weekend- John Mayer
Setting the World on Fire-Kenny Chesney/Pink
Moving on and Getting Over-John Mayer
Million Reasons-Lady GaGa
It Ain't Me-Kygo/Selena Gomez
Guys My Age- Hey Violet
I know What You Did Last Summer-Shawn Mendes

And just about every single country song my exBPDgf played... .

[Aesir]

[url][https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIHEuYfDypg/url]Beatles: Long Winding Road