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Author Topic: So maybe I'm addicted to borderline women  (Read 378 times)
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Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: abandoned December 22, 2014
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« on: March 21, 2017, 09:16:25 PM »

I think I'm in another relationship with a borderline. Instant bonding and very quick to move in together. She found some exes stuff, which I had forgotten about. Even though I deleted everything in Facebook, she found some pics of me with ex from other thing and has just lost it. After an hour and a half of her tearing into me saying I wasn't over her, I'd hung onto the stuff on putposeand me trying to be reasonable, I screamed back. Maybe it's the love bombing, maybe it's the sex. I could not find a way to turn it off after she got wound up. I'm pretty sure it's me.
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« Reply #1 on: March 22, 2017, 07:37:12 PM »

Sure looks like it's the way you state. Although I can understand the push pull of it all, there is nothing like having a r/s with a BPD during the first stage, highly addictive.
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