I, feeling better today but only because I met with an abuse concelor.
My attorney fired me becaus I questioned her and she said I was blaming her... I was only presenting facts and that the detective gave me info that condridicts what she told me.
She was again combative on the phone and defensive... .and said to me well since you agreed in court he did not violate it as he is still allowed to work, ... which is false , she the atty refused to change the addition his side made to the PO. I had to fight her just to get her to tell his side I wanted six months protection as she refused
She said being reported and I'm having it documented .
The detective told me that I'm letting this control me. He took the report but I had to sit there with no one present for over an hour. He also said the x must be mentally sound as he works for the govt... .I started crying when he said that. And went back at him and said well x was almost sent twice for a psych eval. Etc etc.
It's basically a wait u til something happens in this country and then people point fingers... .I have everything so documented they won't point at me but themselves on this one, the court, legal aid, the detective, etc. even the post office
Today for the first time in real life I felt like I have support and I will be putting things in motion next week to try and overturn whatbhis side entered because right now I have no protection and he can do as he wants under the excuse of he was working.
This is all consuming because this was mishandled from the start at the first court date when the judge did not have my file... .it snowballed after that.
So since the detective feels this is controlling me... I now sit on my porch And get video of how close he is to me... my presence is now known... .he wants to act out and jump in front of me again ... I hope he does.
Btw the x had massive amounts of firearms that the family now has... .gotta love that 2nd amendment the detective confirmed it and then handed me the domestic abuse card.
IMO they make very light of these situations and if your x works for the govt he must be sane. That's the frustrating thing.
The councilor feels strongly that it's possible the x used the PO as a method to control me as well as walking in front of my car to do the same. I never until today saw the x as abusive... .
I will continue to document , I feel like I'm regaining some of my power back although everyday is a struggle.
Hi Idsrv2,
That would have rattled me, too. How are you feeling today? What did your lawyer say about it?
heartandwhole