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Hovis
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Child
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« on: April 14, 2017, 03:38:31 AM »

10 years of worry,tears and just me and my Son dealing with what we didn't no.
Drs said Depression, new it was more than this.

Work done all of the diagnosis in 6 months.my son has know the correct diagnosis
It is great news and we have a fantastic team around him.
But only the beginning of a life time diagnosis
Unstable emotional BPD
As always as a family it's just me and him as always.
I know have you guys to be my extended family to cry scream and ask someone
Help me please.
God is my rock, with out him who knows how I would have coped
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Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders
Mutt
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Divorced Oct 2015
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« Reply #1 on: April 14, 2017, 10:04:28 AM »

Hi Hovis, 

Welcome

I'd like to welcome to the group. I'm glad that you decided to to joinus, you're not alone. You're right that it helps to talk to others just like you for support, it also helps to talk to a T concurrently, it sounds like you've been navigating through this on your own for a while? Do you have a T? ( Therapist)

It must of been difficult for you watching your S suffer, the good news is that he is diagnosed and BPD is treatable. How did your S take the diagnosis? How old is he?
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« Reply #2 on: April 14, 2017, 03:25:04 PM »

Hi Hovis,

I wanted to join Mutt in welcoming you.

Does your son live with you?

I was a single mama to my S15, too, for a while. It's tough to raise a child on your own.

Are you doing anything to take care of yourself?

Glad you found the site and are posting. 

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