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I have been on both sides on this, the previous times it has been the pwBPD (3 times before), just ghosting me pretty much.
However i am on the other side of it now, with mainly a quiet waif BPD(mostly).
Surprise the relationship doesn't work. The relationship needs to end before it gets out of hand even though i don't want it to.
Be great to hear some stories on how it finished/finishing ?
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My uBPDh is desperate to stay together - so although he may say things like "I can't do this anymore" or that he would be better off on his own I know that I we really do need a break it will be up to me. I also know his abandonment issues will be too much for him to bear as he punched our car the other week when I said I would be gone for 20 mins to calm down. Trying to figure out if I have the strength to have a break... .
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