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Dusi2591

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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
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« on: May 06, 2017, 02:53:55 AM »

So today May 5th I decided I couldn't wait on my ex anymore and should at least see what else is out there. I open a dating profile (Pictureless) and just see what woman peak my interest before committing and further and adding more to the profile.

 My ex and I have been broken up since December and she was in a new relationship 2 weeks after. we've been no contact for over since the end of January. I check her Instagram and all the photos of Her and him are gone. and Her Facebook has no relationship information. It seems the very day I decide I can't wait they break up. talk about coincidence. Haven't heard anything from her and don't know if I will.
Would Also like to point out she made the relationship seem to be amazing online and all that jazz. Clearly on one end it wasn't, I don't know who did the dumping. For everyone in the middle of this. Don't let pictures deceive you like I did.
Now time to wonder if I'll be reengaged... .

Oh and the only person to catch my interest on the Dating website. Shot every radar off so that's a no go either. Might just have to wait this out a little longer to see where my heads really at. As seeing them not together I had a slight jolt of excitement. Part of it I know was just seeing how much of you have been right.
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« Reply #1 on: May 07, 2017, 01:18:28 PM »

Social media is a funny thing

When BPD people fall out they will  have a clear out like cleansing themselves and then when it gets better the pictures are all back again

Facebook stalking is never good to help with recovery

Why would you want to go back to such a relationship when you Know what your letting yourself in for?
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