Hi From California

[SunlitLady]

I am new here and new to all of this, though my relationship isn't new. We have been together since December of 2014, but did have a breakup for about 6 months last year because I finally couldn't handle certain behaviors that I admittedly did not understand. After trying to figure out what these behaviors of his mean, that journey led me to believe he is a classic BPD, and that brought me here. I'm glad I found you all.

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[JoeBPD81]

Glad to have you here, welcome!

it makes a big difference to understand. And also to know you are not alone in this, so I hope you find a lot of thigs to help you here, and we'll be happy to know about your concerns anytime.

Good luck.

[Tattered Heart]

Welcome Sunlit ,

You'll find so much support and help here. We have lots of great resources listed on the right side of the page that can help you learn more about BPD, communicating better with your pwBPD, and how to care for yourself.