Thanks for the support as always. The past two weeks now I've been tending to some health issue which hasn't me going into the city often, which means not being around when he delivers ... I've also had a change of scene which has helped some.
As for his delivery times they are never consistent ... .the day during thenorder he crossed in front of my car is a time he's usually way past my house.
His boss said that they are now in the streets earlier due to the hot weather... .and I did not know this and one day was on my porch at a time he usually is not around and wham there he was placing a package next to me... he couldn't even hand it to me nicely... .
That's what gets me he's beyond rude to me... .
I'm not sure if I can for sure get him removed it would take some political contacts and to somehow try and paint the picture this is the second mentally unstable person to work this route. The last guy stole our mail.
So I could maybe worst case block out noon until 3pm... with the cooler months fast approaching I have to say I will miss having my mail placed on my porch... .it was something nice he would do ... .ya know doing his job and being polite
I think the only way is to just have the conversation I plan on having and go from there.
Today while out I though about him a few times , but it was more like a wow he could have taken me to this place if he was a nice guy or didn't always have a gun in his front coat pocket
Or oh a steak restaurant he promised me a nice dinner if I maintained my weight since I had trouble gaining... .another thing he failed at... .and all around me were people... .strangers... .I didn't talk to a soul today. Which is rare for me.
It's odd really but I posted How over the weekend I met a guy and we got to talking and something about that conversation really sunk in... .the flow of the conversation with him as well with another guy I met this month... .much different than my x
My x is not at all affected by still passing my house etc... .it's really quite disturbing m
Seeing him almost daily must be so uncomfortable for you and I was surprised to read in your earlier posts about how he was allowed to stay on the same route, as you know.
I think both plan a and plan be sound reasonable in that in an ideal world you'll not be feeling the discomfort any more and it will no longer affect you for him to go about his business but if you are still going to struggle with the constant proximity then it only really leaves open the option of a change. Do you believe that you would be successful now in having him moved onto another route? What would happen if this wasn't achieved?
Is there something you yourself could change to alter the effect of his being around? Is it a certain time each day or does it vary enormously? Short of moving home, could you alter your routine so that you're not around when he is in the area? I know that changing your own schedule and activities is being inconvenienced by the fact that he remains unaltered by things, but I'm considering an 'if all else fails' option. What is important is that you find a constructive way to move forwards for yourself, and it understandably is hindered by his daily presence. Perhaps there is something you aim for personally that would be fulfilling for you which you could undertake at the time of day he is around, therefore effectively killing two birds.
Love and light x
