Hi HeidiSolo and

Im so sorry to hear that, I can imagine that being very painful for you. But Im also glad you have found a community where many of us have been through similar experiences, and we can learn from each other. Please tell us more about yourself, and your situation, as you get comfortable here.
Can you give us a little bit more detail about the situation? Why does your husband not want your son at your house? Are you able to sustain a relationship with him outside the house?