So relieved Am not alone

[AmNotAlone]

I am still in tears! When i came cross this site and read info on homepage i just broke down . Am not going crazy. I love my partner with everything i am! But after all these years of being broken down , made to believe i was a horrible person and my children hating me for staying in this type of relationship i was ready to kill myself . But finding out about BPD and this website i have something i havent had in a long time HOPE 

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[heartandwhole]

Hi AmNotAlone,



Welcome to the family! I'm so glad that you posted. Indeed, you are not alone.   Our members have been where you are, and understand what it's like to love someone with BPD/traits. And yes, there is hope!

When you are ready, tell us more about your situation.

How long have you been together with your partner?
How old are your children?

We're here to listen and support you. 

heartandwhole

[Tattered Heart]

,

So glad you found us. IT's easy to lose hope when you feel like there is no way to improve things. Lots of great support here. Can you tell us a little more about what has been going on in your relationship?