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Hey BPDF,
Not sure where to start here so just going to default to stream of consciousness.
I think my wife may have BPD and not sure what to do next. Looking over the years of our life together, I think it may have always been there in a milder form, but has increased in severity over the past 3-4 years and is truly bringing our relationship to the brink. I think my patience wore out a few years ago due to a major negative life event of her doing and I stopped being the comforting, submissive guy I used to be. I wonder if this caused her confidence and comfort levelto be compromised? No idea.
I am not a medical professional so have no idea if she truly has BPD, but she certainly ticks a vast majority of the boxes.
Anyway, I'll be lurking around here and may occasionally ask questions as I am not sure where to start.
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Welcome cf23596
You've found a great place for support. Many of us here do not have a Dx for our pwBPD.
Can you tell us a little more about what has been going on in your relationship?
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