Did my ex have BPD?

[Tonetta1995]

So from my eariler post. She met a guy on PS4, And she sent him nudes, Whenever I bring up that, She HATES it, Completely hates it, shouts at me, asks me to stop bringing it up, how traumatzing it was for her, how he bullied her, etc.


Does she have BPD? Because it seems like it.

[Harley Quinn]

Can you identify specific traits that match with the DSM 5 definition of BPD? 

We can't diagnose here, but you will find there are some common themes in member posts around behaviours experienced from ex partners, and reaching out to members of the opposite sex during a r/s can be one example.  At the same time, a non disordered individual might also do the same. 

What did you find you identified during the r/s that stood out as possible BPD to you ?  Were there ongoing issues with certain behaviours?

Love and light x

[Tonetta1995]

Was extremely loving to me up until September when she cheated on me with some dude from America, and then was fine for a few weeks, back to distant again.

[Tonetta1995]

UPDATE: She met a friend of a friend and began flirting with him and CUT THE OTHER GUY OUT


She has BPD, For real.