Need advice and imparcial input .

[In a bad way]

I've had a night from hell.
I've seen my ex's mother who kept looking at me like she wanted to say something.
I see her every week but I don't get than impression .
I've been talking to her ex fiancee but she didn't come up in the conversation.
My ex got me in the s** with a bloke over 2 years ago who I ended up fighting with and winning ... .not proud of it.
He shook my hand tonight and said he was sorry... .very strange.
My ex's previous is talking to me like I' m a friend.
I can handle the nutcase In fsact I can handle it all from  they can't beat me point of view but it was sureal

Sorry I pressed the wrong button and it deleted half my text.
I can't believe the last few hours.

[SlyQQ]

Seems normal they just feel bad for what you are going through and maybe guilty for not warning you?

[Bo123]

Few things about BPD make sense, yet we keep on looking.  I'd venture to say our time is better spent elsewhere, but it is so difficult, there always seems to be a solution oh so close.