Just need to vent its soon hard

[Depression = 72% of members]

Hi how do people cope with the changing personality of BPD my partner of 7 yrs has it And got diagnosed with it around a year a go since then its been soo hard as I don't think the meds are doing nothing and his mental health team are always dragging there heels.!

[Lea31]

Hi how do people cope with the changing personality of BPD my partner of 7 yrs has it And got diagnosed with it around a year a go since then its been soo hard as I don't think the meds are doing nothing and his mental health team are always dragging there heels.!

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[Radcliff]

 
Hi Lea31,

I'm sorry that you're dealing with BPD, but I'm glad you've found us.  It can indeed be very hard, but bpdfamily is a great place to get support and learn coping skills to make life better.

Can you tell us a little more about your situation and what things are happening that make it hard?

WW

[Meili]

I would like to join WW in welcoming you.



I think that most of us would agree that it is hard to deal with a pwBPD until we learn healthier ways of managing our own lives. That can greatly reduce the stress associated with the relationship.

There will always be some element of strife, but no relationship is perfect.

Do the two of you have any children? Do you live together?

Perhaps some other members will join in to let you know how they are handling things.