Passion IS attractive. And anger is a very potent form of passion, isn't it? BPD's may be a handful, but they are definitely passionate.
I feel the same way about my dBPDbf. He drives me insane, his anger is difficult to deal with, but even when he's sulking and being a pain in the ass, he is adorable to me.
You know that thing when people say, "You're cute when you're angry!"
And then the angry person gets even more angry because they don't want to be cute. They want to be formidable.
But they are kinda cute sometimes.
