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[Hederacea]

I had to join the board in order to see what it contains, however I find I'm not qualified to be here because I intend to end my 70-year association with my sister with borderline characteristics when my mother dies.  I have had no affection for her and only had contact because she lives near my mother, while I live across the country.  Every visit has been shadowed by dread of her behavior.
I guess no need to say more.  I was looking for some support for my decision.

[Harri]

Hi there.  We support everyone whether they decide to go no contact, low contact, whatever.  The choice is yours to make.  We have lots of people from all different perspectives so why not stick around and give us a chance? 

I am pretty certain we have some common ground to start a conversation. 

[yamada]

Of course. Why would you want to  be with someone who fills you wiht dread.