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crab

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hello world, spouse has been diagnosed with BPD, but refuses to believe

« on: July 11, 2018, 08:40:01 PM »

Don't have much to say, been in this relationship for nearly 30 years. Trying to keep my head above water.


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Re: hello world, spouse has been diagnosed with BPD, but refuses to believe

« Reply #1 on: July 12, 2018, 01:16:59 PM »

Hi crab,

Thank you for letting us know you are here! Feel free to open and write more. We're happy to give and take support with all!

Can you tell us a little about your partner? How long have you been together? What's been going on lately?

take care, pearl.


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Re: hello world, spouse has been diagnosed with BPD, but refuses to believe

« Reply #2 on: July 12, 2018, 09:26:43 PM »

Hi crab, joining pearlsw in welcoming you. We would certainly like to hear more of your story when you are comfortable. After 30 years you must have quite a bit to say.

Sending you strength,
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