After a 24 year marriage, just found out about BPD

[isolino]

Less than a week ago I found the book "stop walking on eggshells", and found in it a great explanation for what's been happening in my marriage for the last 21 years (out of 24). I'm going through a moment of excitement (finally an explanation, It's not just me, It's not my fault... ), and looking forward to learning more about it and finding out what I can do about it... .

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[pearlsw]

Hi isolino,



Glad you found us and sorry it took so many years! Many of us can relate to that feeling of discovery!

Can you tell us more about your partner and the relationship? It helps other members get to know you and in time offer more and better support to each other. Please stick around, and the time to post your own and other member's posts.

What symptoms does your partner exhibit and how do they affect you may I ask?

wishing you peace, pearl.