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Some times we go a few days without a rage incident but then one happens and it sets everyone back and we (the family including the dog) all disengage with him which just feeds into his abandonment fears.
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what happened with the latest rage incident? how long have the two of you been married?
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Hi Hufflepuff,
Sounds like you are all having a really hard time! Sorry to hear you are feeling the effects of your partner's rage. What does he say when he is so upset? What seems to set him off?
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Hi Hufflepuff.
So sorry you have to deal with your BPDh's rages. What happened that triggered his rage?
My uBPDh rages too when he dysregulates, and it's scary and not fun at all. I feel you!
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