Last night he told me I could watch the videos he posted on his twitter - I had to look through all their cheesy tweets to find them... .I left some likes and commented on one of them. No reply. No reaction.
Can you tell me what he is expecting from me? Why does he invite me to check his page if he doesn't feel like reacting anyway? Should I just ignore every single social media tweet from him in the future? No more likes from me too like we always did? He just stopped without communicating, that bothers me. I am scared to even ask about it. Things change and he never tells me about the reasons.
I can guess the reason is her, probably he doesn't want her to find my profile and our old loving tweets.
It's possible that by asking you to look at the videos, knowing you'd see what's written between them, that this is his way of telling you where he's at regards this new woman.
When I am distancing myself I feel like he notices fast and asks what's wrong... .he notices that something's up, he is really sensitive to those things, I am afraid he will be raging against me if he finds me "punishing him" with distance... .
As you've said, things change. Not only do people and relationships evolve, but remember that a pwBPD's behaviour is connected to what they are feeling at the time. When was the last time you began to get distant from him? He's behaving differently towards you now from what you describe. Perhaps he'd be glad rather than angry if you were both equally giving and taking in the r/s. You mention being scared to ask him about the drop off of communication. What might happen?
Love and light x .
