New and Not Sure How to See Threads

[Hope826]

I have a spouse that was recently diagnosed with BPD (after 22 years of frustration and a lot of confusion on my part). He had a breakdown 10 months ago, lost his job and has not worked since.  We have gone through a LOT of counseling - couples and individual and finally one of the counselors recommended thorough testing - the verdict was twofold bipolar type II and borderline.  I am exhausted and desperately trying to hang on here and found this site through the “Walking on Eggshells... .” book.  I just signed up but can’t see any threads yet.  Do I need to post first before I can see the threads or am I just not seeing the tab?  Will I be able to see conversations that are not directly in response to my posts?  I was hoping to gain knowledge from others’ experiences.

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[Radcliff]

We're glad you're here.  bpdfamily is an excellent place to get support and learn coping tools.  Can you tell us about one or two situations or behaviors of your husband that cause you the most difficulty?

You can see an index of all the threads for the Bettering board here:
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=6.0

RC