Crazy merry go round

[Obione]

Wife only changes abusive withdrawing, nacasitic, addictive behavior when forced to. Afraid she is giving in only to avoid consequences.

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[FaithfulInLove]

Welcome, Obione!
It's good you came here for support! Do you wanna share a little more about your situation so we can give good support?
You really found a safe place here where you're listened to and won't be judged.

[Harri]

Hi     Glad you found us though I am sorry for what brings you here.

I second FaithfulInLove in asking you to share more of your story with us.  In the meantime though, I hope you settle in, read, and join in other threads.  It really does help top talk with other people in similar situations.