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Hi everyone,
SO glad to find this site. Just hoping that I can find help and also possibly offer responses to others.
These days I'm feeling exploited financially and misunderstood. Can anyone else relate?
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Hi and welcome! I'm glad you found us too.
I can relate to both things you mentioned. Can you tell us more about what happened?
Feel free to jump in and start posting in other threads. We all support each other so the more the better.
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How are you being exploited financially? I certainly spent a lot of money on my mother, yet it didn't fix her inability to handle her own finances.
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hi rroseselavy, i want to join
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