Hi Rabbit66,
Welcome to the BPD Family

All the members here have someone with BPD/BPD Traits in our lives. In my case my significant other (SO) has an undiagnosed BPD ex-wife (uBPDxw). I arrived here looking for information, others arrive looking for support, others are looking for people that "get it" that are experiencing the same thing and still others are looking for practical tools that can help.
I have found this site and it's members very helpful in my situation.
I suggest that you look around, and read the posts of other members to see what we are all about. If you are comfortable sharing maybe you could share your story so we can get to know you better.
Again Welcome,
Panda39