Mod note: This post was split from the following thread as it merited its own discussion https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=333877.0I told my BPD female friend I love her four weeks into our friendship.
It was not meant as romantic love, I saw many red flags from the first minite.
However her response was:
Oh no... .I have personality problems and identity problems.
She knew what she said and I saw the truth in her words the following months.
