Spouse with BPD

[davych]

 
I am from Lima Peru. The past year i discovered that my wife had a romantic relachionship with other guy. But i saw her behavior was very insane. She started to think in suicide and i went to the hospital and the emergency doctor decide to intership her, then the diagnosis was BPD. I discovered a lot of past lies and i felt disolated

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[Turkish]

Hi davych, and welcome. 

Being cheated upon is a painful betrayal (I've been there), and it sounds like she had a severe breakdown.  Where is she now?  Do you feel safe?

I'm sorry that you feel isolated.  Is there help from the doctors (like a suggested treatment plan?) Do you have family or friends who can support you? We will support you here as an online family 

I hope to hear more and how best we can help davych.

Turkish