Hello!
My ex BPD is hurt (and so am I) now that he knows that "things are over".
He has had a suicideattempt after a failed relationship before... .his sister found his letter... .
an angel apeared (so he says) and made a deal with him so he choose to make this pact.
Sometimes I think of it as "a pact with the devil" for it concerns the way he treats (spoils) his youngest (16) daughter.
That he spoils her that much (an atmosph of nearly incest) is the main reason I cannot support our rs any longer
I have written his sister to read about BPD and I wrote that I cannot be responsible for his acts when he "feels down".
He often talked about sc when our rs should be over
.He now asks not to tekst anymore since our rs is over.
OK.
BUT... .say that one day I know or feel that he's attempted to sc... .Is there anything I can do? must do to prevent it?
Say that he'll texst so as a cry for help?
Anything else but praying for him?
I am quite sure he won't do sc in the first one and half year because his pact is till that daughter is 16.
I know I have to move on myself but I like/must prepared and this community proved to help me.
Thanks!
