2 books

[Borderlined]

I've read 2 books recently.  Walking on Eggshells and Loving Someone With Bpd. And they have both helped me exponentially in dealing with my wife's illness that she will not accept she has.
I wish I had read these books or rather known to read these books years ago. They have helped me to truly believe I'm not a horrible person I've been made to believe I was, and to understand what goes on in her head and diffuse situations that typically escalate into deep hurt feelings on both sides.
If you have read them, I hope you've gotten simular results and if you haven't you may want to make the effort.
I had to go down the audio book route as I've never been able to read books.

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[Harri]

Hi Borderlined!  Thanks for the recommendations.  It is good to know you found them helpful and effective.   

I have not read the second book but we do have a review thread in our Library (see HERE)