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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Child
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« on: July 14, 2019, 12:22:29 PM »

My 40 yr old daughter has drained me financially.  I have helped raise my grandchildren, and I can't take it no more.  She has screamed and yelled so much when I don't help, I shut down. Then she has one my grandkids set me so I feel bad, and end up giving in. I am at my wits end.  She is my only child, but I have so much hatred for her I wish her dead.  I see her number calling me I cringe.  I have no life because of her, I need help to learn to take care of me again.
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« Reply #1 on: July 14, 2019, 12:45:42 PM »

Hello Broken60
I am so sorry for what you are going through but glad you found us. This is the best place to find reliable information, help, and support. Has your daughter been diagnosed with BPD? Even if she has not but is just showing symptoms posting here can help. What else can you tell us about her? How old is she? Does she live with you? The most important thing is in the last line of your post. Take care of yourself.
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