Hi 201lady
I’m so very sorry to read your posts but glad you found us. You say your daughter has been with you since she was 27 and that things have deteriorated in the last year. It’s understandable that your finding your situation so difficult and I’d feel the same. Having an adult child with bpd sharing your home can be exhausting and leave us empty.
The good news is that things can change. You can take control over your situation.
I told her she is not the same daughter as growing up.
She was a little girl then. She’s a woman of 43 years old who is struggling to deal with life.
My son is nearly 29 and two months ago moved into his own place. It can be done. He struggles but is functioning.
You’ve said she has no money. How does she finance her life?
LP