Mod Note: Part 1 is here https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=340474.0;allI saw my Grandbaby. It was so great to see her. She told me everything thats been going on the minute she got in the car. I didn't ask her anything.
She told me her Mother had warned her not to tell Grandma any of this
It is worse than I feared.
Last night at 8yrs old she was taken to an adult party. Her mother got totally drunk and then she met a man. The child told me the man's name. She said she heard her Mother exchange phone numbers and arrange for him to come to their house later that night. A total stranger !
She said her Mother was so drunk in the Uber that she was trying to get the Uber driver to come into the house to drink.
They stopped for more alcohol in the Uber before the child got home after midnight.
When the child snapped me from the bar a similar story with regards to the drinking..totally drunk and buying bottles and bottles of Prosecco. She said her Mothers friend was equally as drunk.
In the half term my daughter was picking at her and shouting. She told the child she couldnt go to a fireworks display because I wouldn't help her and had refused to take the dog..
She said to her that she has too much to deal with sent her to her room so she ( the mother) could "calm down"..The child said I know its hard having a child Grandma...My heart broke. I reassured her that she is a great kid..
We saw a movie and I bought her a poppy which she displayed with pride..We went for a drink and she told me more and more of her Mother's nonesense..
We came back to mine and I made her a lovely dinner, snuggled on the sofa until it was time to go..She said I love you Grandma...
I took the dog for a few days. She said her Mother is screaming and throwing things at the dog.I didnt see my daughter I am very glad to say.
Spending time with someone who loves me so much is exactly what I needed. I feel so much better than I did. I will go to work tomorrow and Tuesday. I feel stronger. We share a mutual respect and love for eachother. She pruned my giant plant God love her..
The dog is also very happy bless her