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emabell5432
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What is your sexual orientation: Other
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Relationship status: im in foster care.. my mom abused me for 15 years and never owned up to it..
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« on: November 24, 2019, 11:59:20 PM »

So, I'm obviously new to this site, so I'll tell my story..

My biological mother was diagnosed with BPD when she was 16 and she had me at 19. She's now 35 and I'm fifteen. My mother has the "If you don't benefit me, you're worthless." and made it very clear to me. She started to mentally abuse me at age 4. The physical stuff started at age 9. She put me in foster a month ago and told all the caseworkers and therapists and adults around that I was delusional and a liar so, no one believed me. And then I was diagnosed with PTSD and they woke up. I'm still in foster care, and I'm still struggling, and I feel like I could just use some people who have been through the same things I have..
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« Reply #1 on: November 25, 2019, 01:33:17 AM »

Hi!

I am so sorry for what you have experienced and I hope you are able to get the help and support you need and deserve.

Unfortunately, to be a member of this site, you must be 18 years of older (see membership requirements at the bottom of this post).  I

We refer underage people who need support to the following sites:

Your Life Your Voice
https://www.yourlifeyourvoice.org/Pages/home.aspx
1-800-448-3000

https://calyouth.org/

I wish you the very best of luck in your recovery.

Harri

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