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Butterfly2020

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When to speak

« on: January 11, 2020, 01:57:13 PM »

I don’t know what to do.


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Kwamina

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Re: When to speak

« Reply #1 on: January 11, 2020, 03:29:48 PM »

Hi Butterfly2020 Welcome new member (click to insert in post)

Welcome to BPDFamily. Your profile says the disordered person in your life is a sibling and that you are living together, is that indeed correct?

Could you tell us a bit more about what is going on and what brought you here?

Hope to read more of your story later Virtual hug (click to insert in post)

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« Reply #2 on: January 11, 2020, 05:31:56 PM »

Hi. I am joining Kwamina in saying welcome.

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Take your time. In the meantime, hang out and read. Get to know us a bit.


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Re: When to speak

« Reply #3 on: January 13, 2020, 02:06:56 AM »

Quote from: Butterfly2020 on January 11, 2020, 01:57:13 PM

I don’t know what to do.

Join the club Virtual hug (click to insert in post)

We’ve all been there in our own way. It can get better.


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