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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Friends she wants to be friends but says she wants to get back together
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My bpd girlfriend broke up and said she wanted to start again
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We meant in a mental hospital I was in there because I was depressed badly I got better fast i started seeing her she was clingy then really doesn't she I chased her to make her feel wanted she got out first then I seen something on Facebook she was talking to her exe i called her asked her if she wanted to be with him she said no I didn't believe her at first I calmed down and she invited me to go to house before I called her but I hurt her feelings and I didn't go she was distant but still talking to me not much I got scared incase she was trying to find someone else so I made her jealous with another girl big mistake I told her why I did it and how I felt I was still in s mental health hospital she stopped talking to me or got out a few days later I left flowers at her door step she started talking to me then I put I picture of us on Facebook mailed her told her then about a week later she told me to take it off she said it was because another girl wrote on my timeline o deleted both popost she mailed me again on FB I didn't read then she called fast we spoke I was nice I know she didn't mean it for badness I sent her a mail later that day told her I was sorry and I still loved her and she sent me a mail BK told me she loves me too then gave her a weeks space then mailed her she started calling me in the middle of the night she showed signs she wanted to get back together and a week or 2 later she invited me up I went to visit her on Saturday we were talking and then we went to her bedroom she got changed into her pajama throusers right in front of me actually right in front of me face to face while we were talking standing up we were laying in her bed I asked if we could get back together she said she wanted to see how we got on outside the mental health ward but she said I'm not saying no she mentioned not right now she needs time ps I didn't make a move because I love her and don't her to think I just want sex we haven't had sex I got told o done the right thing and her changing in front of me is a big step but it's me who has been making the first moves I seen something about meeting a special girl I tagged her in it she give it a love and replyed thank you with a love heart but what should I do now give her space I do love and don't want to push her away ps she told her dad mentally physically abused her growing up she has tested me tho so I got fed up told her why I was unhappy but should I give space I know about about bpd but not everything
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