Should I ask my boarderline ex what she wants

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When I first meet her she was clingy but then she got distant and she hurt me I hurt her we broke up but we're still friends she invited me to her house she got changed into pajama right in front of me we were laying in her best watching a flim I asked her if we could get back together and she said she wanted to see how we got on as friends first made it clear it was a maby not a no I think she might be doing it for attention at the start she said she wanted to marry me have kids I know that's a phase...I'm going to give it 3 weeks and if she doesn't contact me then I'm going to ask her if there is any chance of us getting back together and if she's doing it for attention going to ask for the answer I want I'm not sure if I love her I have feelings for her we were only together 3 month she's has been sexual abused by her dad so is confused and I don't want to look for something that isn't there

[Jboy305]

When I first meet her she was clingy but then she got distant and she hurt me I hurt her we broke up but we're still friends she invited me to her house she got changed into pajama right in front of me we were laying in her best watching a flim I asked her if we could get back together and she said she wanted to see how we got on as friends first made it clear it was a maby not a no I think she might be doing it for attention at the start she said she wanted to marry me have kids I know that's a phase...I'm going to give it 3 weeks and if she doesn't contact me then I'm going to ask her if there is any chance of us getting back together and if she's doing it for attention going to ask for the answer I want I'm not sure if I love her I have feelings for her we were only together 3 month she's has been sexual abused by her dad so is confused and I don't want to look for something that isn't there

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