Hey Carguy,
Since she ignored your last text, I would recommend that you do not try again for now. You said you don't know what kind of relationship you want with her. I think this is something you can spend some time trying to figure out first. By the time you figure that out, she may have reached out to you, or you can then re-asses if you want to reach out to her yourself. That doesn't have to be today. I know you miss her. I miss my ex tremendously as well. Its a pain I just accept to live with, and I try to do my best not to do anything further damaging to her, to me, and to the potential relationship.
I would like some advice though. As I have posted previously, She has told me to just stay away from her. After she told me this she asked for favours and gave me mixed signals and then reaffirmed that she wanted me to leave her alone when I would try to be friendly and talk with her.
In our past she has never came right out and told me to just stay away.
Aaah, yes, the gut punch of being told to stay away for the first time ever. I know what that's like. Last year, after my ex and I broke up, I was trying to get back together with her, and for the first times, I heard those same words from her: "I don't want to pursue a relationship with you. Leave me alone, go live your life, date other people", etc. And of course, even as she said that, she would also continue sending me mixed signals (in one convo she simulatenously told me in the harshest way that she doesn't want a relationship with me, and then topped that with an "I love you, talk to you tomorrow"). And she also started chasing me again a few months later, when I did start to walk away. So while I do recognize how hurtful and worrisome it must be for you to hear those things from her for the first time, I wouldn't put too much stock in the specific words she uses as predictors of the future. Instead, I would just give her what she asked for (space), and more importantly give yourself that too so that you can figure out what you want with her.