EMDR Treatment and BPD

[Snowdog]

 Hi. I have been painted black. We have broken up. My BPD is undergoing EMDR. She has been working on deregulating and is very willing to improve her quality of life. They are a few triggers that are historical with us. The one is total projection on her part and the other is lying/trust. I made a white lie to her early on and it has turned into a never ending conflict. She will never date a liar again etc. My question is does anyone have experience with EMDR and BPD? Is it possible in time that she will build new pathways that will let her view our major obstacles in a different way and possibly reconsider getting back together?

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[Snowdog]

I know I'm being vague on everything but it hurts to much to go over everything in detail. I'm trying to regulate myself...