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I'm having a hard time without my ex- girlfriend. She told me she believes she has BPD over a year ago. We told each other we were soulmates. I've never been happier and miss her terribly. She ended our relationship close to 8 months ago. We talked for a few months afterwards, but she eventually became angrier with me and blamed me for everything and stopped talking at all. I'm hurting and feel like she forgot all about me or doesn't care at all anymore. Is there a chance she could change her mind in time and think of the good times and how happy we once were and maybe come back? She once told me she didn't want to do life without me and couldn't imagine not being together. I miss her so much but she wants no communication at all. Sometimes I can't understand how she doesn't miss us together at all.
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Hi,
I'm going through something similar. Though my relationship wasn't quite as long. I wish it was because I feel like with both of us going through so much, we didn't really have a chance.
Just wondering since it's been a couple of months since this post if you have heard from her? Hoping you're doing ok.
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