Trying so hard to stay mentally healthy myself

[Kenneth007G]

My pregnant fiance has bpd and its severe. Its minute to minute, then day to day. Everything I say is shot back at me in reverse. I flirt, she thinks I'm angry. I laugh, she asks am I laughing at her. etc

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[Ozzie101]

Hi Kenneth and welcome!

I’m sorry you experiencing this. BPD can truly be a bewildering thing.

I hope you don’t mind if I ask a few questions:

How long have you been together?
Is she receiving any kind of therapy?
When she throws things back at you, how do you usually respond?

Hope you don’t mind the questions but details help us know how to help you.