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[harmony2980]

I am looking for advice or information to help me with my 15 year old daughter with BPD. I am also a child of a mother with BPD and have made some mistakes in parenting due to the way I was brought up. I am learning every day and hoping to help my daughter cope with her intense emotions and lead a happy and successful life.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Swimmy55]

Welcome, we are glad to hear from you.  Is your daughter in treatment/ therapy ?  Please peruse through this website .  I would say also start with this link https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=114267.0
I too, have a father with BPD traits undiagnosed and have a son 26 with BPD  .  I think the best thing you can do starting out is learning all you can about BPD.  The library here has book recommendations on the subject, and a popular choice is " Stop Walking on Eggshells". 
2 things to remember, it is a marathon, not a sprint.  Unfortunately there is no "one thing" that will save the BPD child from the BPD.  The second thing to remember is as human parents we have all made mistakes.

Please write back as you are able.