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Author Topic: Trying to get my BPD ex girlfriend back rhis is a short and simple question  (Read 535 times)
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« on: April 09, 2020, 04:11:16 PM »

We broke up in January i visted her once tried to get her back she said she wanted to see how we get on as friends for a while we have had contact on and off she made contact with me a few weeks ago said things would get better between me and her then her dad died i have made contact with her a few times and she called me to talk. Before her fathe died she told me we could get back together when she is better she still has feelings for me and i still love her i know it will take time and to give her space

Because she is going through a hard time i want to be there for her i messaged her 3 times she replied she knows i care and im there for her ps she dumped me i didn't abandon her
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« Reply #1 on: April 09, 2020, 04:58:30 PM »

We broke up in January i visted her once tried to get her back she said she wanted to see how we get on as friends for a while we have had contact on and off she made contact with me a few weeks ago said things would get better between me and her then her dad died i have made contact with her a few times and she called me to talk. Before her fathe died she told me we could get back together when she is better she still has feelings for me and i still love her i know it will take time and to give her space

Because she is going through a hard time i want to be there for her i messaged her 3 times she replied she knows i care and im there for her ps she dumped me i didn't abandon her

Hi my friend.

It can be so hard to watch people we love suffer and also hurt ourselves because of the "push-pull" that unstable partners do to us.

You said this was a short question but you never really asked one.

Is there a question or are you looking more for some moral support?

Rev
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