blindsided by a breakup

[BrokenHeart2020]

Hi there. I was completely blindsided by a breakup with an ex with BPD.  We were living together/talking about marriage... then she abruptly moved out.  She kept some of her stuff at my place for weeks and now it's finally all gone...but, I am still in complete shock.  There's been many words of hope about "not closing the door on a future", but her actions just don't line up.  I just read the article "surviving a break-up when your partner has borderline personality" and much of it seems pretty spot on.   We have pretty much stopped talking, but there was never any sort of closure.  That is the very difficult part.  Any guidance on how to navigate this situation would be appreciated. 

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