Can I get the man I married back?

[Tamo45]

Hello

I have been with my husband for 15 years and over the course of our life he has at times been unfaithful I always know the signs and I call him out and it stops.  As of for the past 3 years he has increased in this area and now he is not taking anything I say and ask for .  I have 3 boys with him and I am losing my mind and self at this moment. I know we are all going to need therapy I already have had 2 of my boys in therapy . Can I get the man I married back?

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[Naughty Nibbler]

Hi  Tamo45:
How are things going?  I'm sorry your post fell down the list unnoticed.

over the course of our life he has at times been unfaithful I always know the signs and I call him out and it stops.  As of for the past 3 years he has increased in this area and now he is not taking anything I say and ask for.

  Do you think he has one special person he is cheating with, or several?  What other behavioral issues does he exhibit?

I already have had 2 of my boys in therapy   

What was the focus/goal of the therapy with your 2 boys?  Did it help?