BPD spouse verbally abusing me and kids

[Suzy Q]

Married for 20 years finally figured out the spouse has BPD verbally abusive towards son and daughter is it time for me to pack it in

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[formflier]

Since you now can put a "name" to it..I suggest you stick around and learn about what  and how things might change...if you decide to change them.

https://www.bpdfamily.com/content/what-does-it-take-be-relationship

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Best,

FF