Trying to decide what to do for best

[Harrisps]

On pretty much a daily basis my wife is dysregulating in front of our d2. Telling me she wants to split all of the time, that I’ve ruined her life and the rest... our daughter is watching it all unfold and it is killing me emotionally.

We have a 6 month old little boy. I love them all massively but just can’t seem to get out of the storm for very long and then I’m pushed to breaking point and after days of berating I am so exhausted that I crack and ultimately add more coals to the fire.

In my mind as our little boy becomes bigger and sleeps longer I feel the pressure could lift a little. So I really don’t want to leave them but what is the best way forward?

I just don’t know how much more we can all take of this current breakdown before it becomes irreparable.

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this is clearly a struggle.

what is going on?

why does she want to split? why do you want to split?