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« on: July 11, 2020, 08:52:12 AM »

It’s a long story and unfortunately some of you can relate...my older sister (47 yrs) has cut me off from her kids (10 & 8) She is on medication and is seeing a counselor which is great but I think she has misunderstood setting boundaries and now my relationship with her kids has been damaged. I am heartbroken and helpless and I hate it.
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« Reply #1 on: July 12, 2020, 11:07:47 PM »

How did you enact boundaries with her that resulted in kids cut off?

Has she threatened this before?
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« Reply #2 on: July 12, 2020, 11:32:43 PM »

Hi.  Welcome

I am joining turkish in saying hello.  He asked the same questions I would ask so I won't repeat them.  I hope you share more with us when you want to.  In the meantime, hang out, read, etc.

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