Has she made any threats so far? If you do x I will do Y?
Are any of those threats recorded?
Most smart phones can get recorder apps.
How did the first breakup go? Any allegations then?
Does she threaten to break up with you now?
Best,
FF
No threats so far. The first time we were together she always use to threaten me with other guys but since we have been back together she stopped doing that. No crazy allegations or threats but she is so unpredictable and always finding new ways to make me miserable.
The first breakup ended quite badly. After I caught her cheating for a second time we got in a huge screaming battle and it ended with me leaving, blocking her, and not looking back. I normally keep my cool but at that time I just had it. When we got back together she admitted she texted me that she was pregnant (which was a lie) but I never got the text because I had her blocked.
I wish she would break up with me. In a way I think she can sense it to. So she will not breakup with me because she knows it will satisfy me. She’s going to want to run me threw the dirt and hurt me as much as possible before she lets me go. She has threatened to break up with me though a few times. Wish she would go through with it. So if this ends it going to have to be me that ends it. I feel like the sooner the better to.
She has showed no signs of cheating this time around but I feel like it’s a matter of time before that happens again. Not saying she will, but the odds definitely lean to her doing it again at some point. She can’t stand being alone!.
So you would recommend recording the interaction when I do breakup with her? Before I do it I’m definitely going to warn my therapist like I said. I will also let family and friends know as well